When you think you know what the right course of action is or what’s best for another person, it is natural to want to offer advice. However, if you expect them to follow your advice, you are setting yourself up for heartache and grievance and that can really harm your relationship with that other person. But if you can give them advice without stressing about it, even if they tell you they disagree, the door is still open for them to come back to you for more help or take your advice later.